In regard to present secrets, it is always very satisfying when you are able to keep the secret.
However, a lot of the time, it is not a big deal if you let a few present secrets slide, but you feel bummed about it.
This recently happened to me.
I sent my boyfriend a package that contained:
|Textured Vegetable Protein|
|..this picture framed.|
I was very bummed.
BUT today he got the package. If he didn't know what was inside, he would have waited to open it later that night when we talked. Then he wouldn't have gotten to use the TVP with his dinner. But, since he knows I sent him TVP he can have a protein-filled dinner TONIGHT!
Plus, he still doesn't know about the rest of the present, so it's all good :)
And that's why sometimes it's okay to give away present secrets.
[P.S. This was my first attempt at being girlfriend Yoda. I may or may not get better at it].